“We've created a series of tricks to say 'no' to ourselves, including joining up with people who disqualify us, making friends with people who don't include us in their worlds. In this way, we play a terrible game.
A wheel that is fed by a movement in which we ourselves construct our space of pain, either by joining up with people who disqualify us, or by seeking answers from people who will say no, or by working in something that doesn't give us pleasure, etc. We go through this kind of torture and stop noticing, appreciating, turning to people or knocking on doors that really say: yes, you can do it.”
Author: XamAM